7.9.11

5 Easy Tips to Save Up Money


Are you the type of woman who tend to love shopping, hanging out, splurging into massages and spa treatments, traveling, -- in other words, spending money! Bet we all do. But are you the type who spends most of her monthly earnings to these and do not even think about saving up? When saving up money seems to be hard for you, then you might as well read on for some of my personal ways on how to save money.



1. Jar it Up: I hate carrying coins, and thank god I do, because it eventually been one of my ways of saving up money. At the end of each day, all those coins I got in my wallet, (and sometimes scattered inside my bag) goes into a tin jar. Sooner than you think, you already have a thousand bucks inside that can, enough to get you a new handbag or a new outfit or plainly just to get you through when you need emergency funds. You can simply have it changed into bills, of course.



2. Slip it into Reading: If you love reading, slipping some 50 or 100 bucks into your favorite books is also one ways of saving money. Like placing your coins in a jar, you will have something to spend on tight times, and who knows, you'll be able to get yourself a new laptop at the end of the year or earn more than enough for a summer getaway.

3. Divide and Collect: Being a freelance writer, one thing I do is opt for different online payment options -- like Paypal and Moneybookers -- so that not all my payouts get into my bank account. This way, you'll have your spending account and your emergency account. It takes a lot of discipline though not to tap into the other account especially if you tend to shop a lot. 

4. Opt for Debit over Credit: Another technique that works for me is living through the principle, 'Do not spend beyond your means.' which starts with how you spend. Though I have a credit card, I still opt to bring with me my debit cards, as they tend to encourage spending within your means. Also, this would at least hinder you to splurge on things you don't really need. You don't want to panic where to get money to pay for your debt in case you lose your job or a sudden emergency expense comes along. 

5. Jot it All Down: The most basic way to save money is to develop your ability to manage your expenses. It is always important to make a list of your weekly or monthly expenses and allot say 5%-10% of your weekly or monthly pay to your savings. List everything you spend on, cross out those that you don't really need, and try to think about ways to save money. Say, do you really need to spend on bottled water each time or some take out meal or you can really manage to get yourself a packed meal or bring some refill tumblers for your water? Or maybe you can cut down your daily Starbucks and do it twice a week. Calculate the amount of money you can save by simply rethinking over the way you spend and you will see how much more important things you can buy with that.

It pays saving up money, and with the kind of situation our economy is going through, we never really know how stable our jobs are. If rainy day comes, it's always good to have some savings to draw from without going stressed out on where to get money to get you through hard times.

5.9.11

Why Does Everyone Seem Pregnant?: The Vague Trending Facebook Stat

Indeed, Facebook has been this generation's gossip magazine featuring ordinary people which you call "friends". It's basically where you find out the greatest achievements of people you know (or don't personally know but just curious about) to the nastiest and stupidest things that has happened to them. It's a great source of information for stalkers, gossipers, and curious people since users has been unknowingly hooked up and seem to get everything they are doing written on their walls. Status updates that are weird, doesn't seem to make sense and just plain "attention-catchers" definitely attract long thread of comments that are in the first place can be talked about on chat boxes.  


For the last week, I have been noticing weird status updates from my Facebook female friends (even gays) posting statuses in a particular format, "I'm X weeks and craving Y" or for example "I'm 1 week and craving peanut butter cups". It reads as if everybody on Facebook is pregnant! After trying to ignore the "what seems to be the trending status format", I received a private message from one of my Facebook friends which finally enlightened me about these weird status updates.


It's Breast Cancer Awareness Month's (BCAM) campaign which is on October which if I'm not mistaken has been done for 2 years now. Last year's campaign was "I like it on the X" or "I like it on the sofa" (or bed or floor etc.) which turns out to be where women want to place their purses. 




Below is the exact message I received via Facebook inbox on what turns out to be BCAM's campaign. 


Ok ladies, it's that time of year again in support of Breast Cancer Awareness! We all remember the previous games with the bra colour and purses, right? This year we're doing something different! DO NOT tell any males what the status' mean, keep them guessing AND please forward this to your female friends to see if we can make a bigger fuss than last year!

The idea is to choose the month you were born in and the day you were born. You will set your status as "I'm (your brith month) and I'm craving (your birth date)!!!"

Example; Feb 14 = I'm 2 weeks and craving chocolate mints!!!

January = 1 week
February = 2 weeks
March = 3 weeks
April = 4 weeks
May = 6 weeks
June = 8 weeks
July = 10 weeks
August = 12 weeks
September = 13 weeks
October = 14 weeks
Novemeber = 16 weeks
December = 18 weeks

1 = Skittles
2= Starburst
3= KitKat
4= M&M's
5= Tomatoes
6= Ice Cream
7= Dairy Milk
8= Lollipop
9= Peanut Butter Cups
10= Meatballs
11= Twizzlers
12= Bubble gum
13= Hershey's Kisses
14= Chocolate Mints
15= Twix
16= Cheese
17= Fudge
18= Cherry Jell-O
19= Banana's
20= Pickles
21= Chicken Wings
22= Peanut M&M's
23= Gummie Bears
24= Gummie Worms
25= Strawberry Poptarts
26= Aero Bar
27= Mini Eggs
28= KitKat Chunkie
29= Double Chocolate Chip Cookies
30= Smarties
31= Chocolate Cake

Let's get ready to freak out the men!



So, what do you think about Breast Cancer Awareness Month campaign? Feel free to leave your comments below. :)

Getting Hitched, Getting Ditched: The Dilemma of Staying Single at Mid-20s

So you are on your mid-20s, everyone you know seems to be married, starting out their own family and seems to be the basis of happiness and fulfillment. You're on a long term relationship, doesn't know where you're headed to and your partner doesn't seem to make the move. Another situation is, you remain absolutely single, and the right person doesn't seem to come your way. You feel like your less than complete and feel like you're working for nothing, but money -- or just for the sake of having what you can call a job.


What do you do when you're on this situation? Does it mean you're a failure? But before hastily doing something,  you might want to go on reading and ask yourself.




Clear Cut Want or Getting into the Bandwagon? Before considering tying the knot, you have to think several times, are you ready to move to the next level or you just want to go with the trend? Are you financially, capable of running a family, or just initially spending on a wedding. Undeniably, a woman's ultimate turning point is getting married so you might at least want to invest on the ceremonies. Another thing, are you genuinely emotionally ready and capable of handling married life stresses? It's not as easy as you think, and it's not always happy ending after the marriage. It's just a beginning of more responsibilities and adjustments that you have to make.


Have you Considered Your Partner's Thoughts? Have you tried asking him what are his plans? Or if he says why he doesn't want to settle yet, have you tried asking him why? Men tend to get scared with the thought of losing their liberty and for women to ask them that, that would add pressure on them. But if you have been together for a while right now, a simple question wouldn't hurt much, right? Plus, if he can't seem to give you an  answer, then maybe, he doesn't really want to do it. Quoting Marie Forleo on procrastination which I found also related to this topic, "If you don't want to schedule it, you probably don't want to do it." If this seems to be the case, then you might start to think, are you with the right person, or you're just hanging up to something that's going nowhere?


Are You Stable Career-wise? People today tend to differentiate the meaning of earning a lot as compared to achieving a lot. You can earn bucks in any area if you persevere, but the question is, is that what you really want to do? Is it the thing that fulfills your spirit? And mind you, if you get married at this age without fulfilling your career goals, you are much less likely to be able to work on that after marriage. Reason is, your priorities changes, your schedule is completely revised, and you will have another person to consider before making huge decisions. 




Indeed, marriage is not something to rush into, or treated as an escape to the boredom of being single. You got to feel fulfilled as an individual first, before sharing yourself with another person. I would want to end this post with a quote by Barnett Brickner which goes "Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate, but through being the right mate."








4.9.11

Just Typing: My First Blog Entry


Mixed up ideas.


I am a freelance writer who initially came into online writing to earn some bucks and later on realize that I love what I am doing and should start to put up my own spot and directly contribute my thoughts, not just getting my writing behind people's blogs and websites.


I'm putting up this site to contribute my thoughts and feature things, events, ideas, -- everything under the sun that concerns women.


I hope this site can be helpful enough and become an avenue for discussion.


Now, to start with, to all the women out there, what do you think is worth discussing? As a woman, what are the things you want to read about? Feel free to leave a comment below and I'll try to feature it here. :) Cheers! Always smile.